Friday, June 5, 2009

Think Positive Always And Go To Success In Life

23 comments:

  1. hi frnds dont think who all people but think different and think positive always then u go to success

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  2. LOVE IS LIFEposted by ♥Θ Řĩŝђĩ Ω ĵάιп ☻☺Θ♥Ćõôļ Đǖđέ♥ at love is life - 5 months ago
    ‘Love’ is a word; which brings you in dream world, where you have unique feelings, affections and an unknown excitement. Some of the people say, it is not the matter of saying or ex...

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  3. unka yun rato ko khwabon me ana achcha lagta he
    unka yun hamko har roz satana achcha lagta he
    kabhi milti he nazar or kabhi jhuk jati he
    unka yun mila ke nazar nazar churana achcha lagta he
    khulke milne me hamse wo zara sharmate he
    unka yun hamse mike sharmana achcha lagta he
    kabhi kabhi wo gairon se bhi khulkar batein karte he
    unka yun dillagi se dil ko jalana achcha lagta he
    unka lab khul jayein to phoolon ki barish hoti he
    unka yun hanske hamko bulana achcha lagta he

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  4. 5 months ago
    *Life is so colorful now i came to know* *when all are my friends and nobody a foe* *Today let me tell you about my coaching* *where all moments are jazzed up and so twinkling* *When i go there all what i de...

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  5. Will you give me an answer
    asking on bended knee
    With this ring that I give you
    I ask will you marry me





    May I have the honor
    as making you my bride
    Want to spend all my days
    with you by my side





    So give me an answer
    will it be yes or no
    I'll love you forever
    I want you to know

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  6. ‘Love’ is a word; which brings you in dream world, where you have unique feelings, affections and an unknown excitement. Some of the people say, it is not the matter of saying or expressing, but just of feeling; it is just a flavor, which you can only taste, not tell to anyone, while other describe that the more you express, less. Whatever is there, but most of the couples believe that having something great for someone is a starting of great relation. Are you also one, who finds any thing like the starting of love? You must come to chaise the following; in order to know whether it is love or something else. People don’t chaise the philosophy; they know it’s hard. Probably, that’s why they just want to be in real world. What happens initially, as males see someone with coral lips, rosy cheeks or star like eyes or females find a handsome, stylish or muscleman, they start imagining. This is not bad; it’s true that both attract to each other. But dear, it’s only an attraction, not love. Love is something that occurs itself. You never need to think or imagine about that; suddenly, without any extra effort, someone will come out of crowd for you. Don’t believe? All right, I’m going to try with an example of my friend:My friend jack is a tourism advisor and has an attractive personality. You all know that tourism is a profession, where you meet several different kinds of people. He shared with me that one day, a well-figured girl, around 25, came to him for professional purpose; they talked for a long time later. Here, a new and exciting relation started. They are continuing on dates today also, although, later they came to know that both are married. He says that he knows it’s bad, and she isn’t in love with him, still he is unable to say her ‘good buy’. She also doesn’t have any problem, and they both come close to each other, whenever they need. The above is what often occurs with the people. But this example may help you to realize that it’s not what you understand. Attraction also has a strong existence, but it doesn’t create a relationship that has the right elements to grow up happily forever. There is something missing. Yes, it is the lack ness of something what you want to feel; the trust, you search.Actually, attraction and love both are caused by the different hormones. Attraction is something, which may occur at first look generally called ‘love at first sight’ and may turn into love, later; but the feeling of love takes time. There is something unknown, which inspires you to faith in one.This is not the matter of mind, but of heart. Of course, it occurs when all the colors of one’s rainbow match to another one’s. It has much higher feelings than attraction towards someone. So, love and attraction are much different to each other. Physical relationship may be the attraction’s first requirement, but love has no mean with the word “expectation”. There is a complete satisfaction in love, not only physical, but spiritual also.

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  7. I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing. ~Agatha Christie

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  8. It is quite possible that you arrived on this website by devine intervention. However you found us we say help yourself. Thinkpositive*net was designed to offer encouragement and comfort to those seeking answers or who just need a little motivation in their lives

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  9. A - Adversity
    Start by spelling out the nature of the situation. Notice that you can experience hopelessness in response to ostensibly positive situations as well as to negative ones. For example, getting a new client or being accepted into a final round of interviews can upset your balance and send you into a whirlwind of anxiety and fear that produces just as much hopelessness and overwhelm as not getting the job or not making the cut.

    B -- Beliefs
    This is your opportunity to spell out the thoughts and beliefs that are fueling the negative response.

    C -- Consequences
    Look at the consequences of your beliefs -- what happened as a result? How do you behave? What happened then?

    D -- Disputation
    Actively dispute the beliefs that break your life balance and send you into the downward spiral. This is where you practice arguing with yourself in a productive way.

    E -- Energization
    When you have been effective in disputing the problem beliefs, you feel an influx of energy, a sense of renewed hope, or at least of peacefulness

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  10. Adversity:
    I was excited about moving forward on two projects when I fell on my bike and cracked my ribs. I was okay and working hard with this for almost three days, then depression and anxiety set in and my usual positive thinking ability left me. Instead of feeling like moving forward I felt like bursting into tears

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  11. Beliefs:
    How will I ever restore my work life balance and get things done if I can't stop these mood swings? Maybe I am just not meant to lead these projects. I don't know enough and I can't seem to get started -- I probably should have said no in the first place. It would be better to bow out now, as embarrassing as that will be, than to keep going and have a bigger train wreck later when I just can't make the grade

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  12. Consequences:
    These beliefs leave me feeling very sad and small, like a six year old, and then I wonder how a six year old can possibly be a leader. I find it hard to concentrate and I just want to hide.

    Disputation:
    Constant low-grade pain can take it out of anyone. The world is not going to come to an end if you delay things because you've been injured. And who says you have to do it alone anyway? Some of the problem is that you don't have enough information to go forward. That calls for making requests of others, not for blaming yourself. And when you're not leaning on yourself so hard, your positive thinking ability starts coming back and your mood lightens -- so maybe it would be smart to cut yourself some slack this week after letting folks know what is going on. You don't have to crawl under a rock -- you can reach out instead to restore your work life balance. And even if some work projects end up being passed on to others, there will always be other opportunities.

    Energization:
    I called and emailed colleagues to regroup. Not only did these conversations relieve my anxiety, they made simple next steps quite clear. In one case, my summary of a conversation ended up being exactly what our group needed to move forward. Who knew? I had been worried about making things happen on my own when all along my strength was in articulating and clarifying complex input from many sources.

    See how this works? I do strongly recommend the book as there are many more practices in it that address different aspects of overwhelm and ways to restore your work life balance. But if you struggle with hopelessness and challenge yourself to work through this one exercise on a regular basis (and if that means five or ten times a day, so be it), your positive thinking skills will grow and you WILL get relief. Remember -- don't measure change before it can happen -- keep doing the practices long enough for significant positive shifts to take root and grow.

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  13. Ham apne Pyaar ka Izhaar isliye nahi karte hain,
    Kyunki ham unki han ya na se darte hain,
    Agar unhone kar di han to ham khushi se mar jayenge,
    Aur agar unhone kar di na to ro ro ke mar jayenge,
    Baat ye nahi ke ham apni Maut se darte hain,
    Par hamari Maut pe na beh jaye kahin Unke do Aansu,
    Ham to bas Unke un do Aansuon ki kadr karte hain...

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  14. Pyaar Ka Izhaar





    Ham apne Pyaar ka Izhaar isliye nahi karte hain,
    Kyunki ham unki han ya na se darte hain,
    Agar unhone kar di han to ham khushi se mar jayenge,
    Aur agar unhone kar di na to ro ro ke mar jayenge,
    Baat ye nahi ke ham apni Maut se darte hain,
    Par hamari Maut pe na beh jaye kahin Unke do Aansu,
    Ham to bas Unke un do Aansuon ki kadr karte hain...

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  15. Pyaar Ka Izhaar
    Do you want more funny mails?




    Ham apne Pyaar ka Izhaar isliye nahi karte hain,
    Kyunki ham unki han ya na se darte hain,
    Agar unhone kar di han to ham khushi se mar jayenge,
    Aur agar unhone kar di na to ro ro ke mar jayenge,
    Baat ye nahi ke ham apni Maut se darte hain,
    Par hamari Maut pe na beh jaye kahin Unke do Aansu,
    Ham to bas Unke un do Aansuon ki kadr karte hain...

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  16. Life is a one way
    Life is a one way street....
    No Matter which door u take..
    Non of them..
    Leads back..
    So Enjoy every moment of ur life..
    B'coz nothing will happen the same way again....take care..


    ...................................................



    The most determinative & motivating sentence which shud always be followed in life.
    The RACE is NOT OVER because I haven't WON yet.


    ...................................................



    Have you ever watched a stone cutter at work??
    He will hammer away at a rock, for perhaps a 100 times without a crack showing in it.
    Then, on the 101st blow, it will split in two..
    It is not that blow alone.. Which accomplished the result,
    But the 100 others that went before as well...
    So...
    To accomplish any goal...keep going...

    What matters is PERSISTENCY

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  17. Teacher says to student, In Algebra


    A=B
    &
    B=C.


    It means A=C.




    Now give relevant example.


    Student: Sir, I love you & You love your daughter,


    It means that I love your daughter

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  18. अगर रख सको तो एक निशानी हूँ मैं,
    खो दो तो सिर्फ एक कहानी हूँ मैं ,
    रोक पाए न जिसको ये सारी दुनिया,
    वोह एक बूँद आँख का पानी हूँ मैं.....
    सबको प्यार देने की आदत है हमें,
    अपनी अलग पहचान बनाने की आदत है हमे,
    कितना भी गहरा जख्म दे कोई,
    उतना ही ज्यादा मुस्कराने की आदत है हमें...
    इस अजनबी दुनिया में अकेला ख्वाब हूँ मैं,
    सवालो से खफा छोटा सा जवाब हूँ मैं,
    जो समझ न सके मुझे, उनके लिए "कौन"
    जो समझ गए उनके लिए खुली किताब हूँ मैं,
    आँख से देखोगे तो खुश पाओगे,
    दिल से पूछोगे तो दर्द का सैलाब हूँ मैं,,,,,
    "अगर रख सको तो निशानी, खो दो तो सिर्फ एक कहानी हूँ मैं"....___________";"...

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  19. Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
    Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
    Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
    Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
    Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
    Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
    Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.

    Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
    Par Dosti Ke Lye Waqt Nahi.
    Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
    Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
    Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
    Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
    Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.

    Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
    Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
    Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
    Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
    Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
    Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
    Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.......

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  20. Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
    Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
    Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
    Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
    Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
    Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
    Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.

    Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
    Par Dosti Ke Lye Waqt Nahi.
    Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
    Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
    Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
    Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
    Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.

    Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
    Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
    Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
    Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

    Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
    Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
    Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
    Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.......

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  21. स्टेशन पे एक कुली से बाहर जाने का रास्ता पूंछा .
    कुली ने कहा: " बाहर जाके पूंछो ."


    मैंने ख़ुद ही
    रास्ता ढूंढ़ लिया ,
    बाहर जाके टैक्सी वाले से पूंछा :
    " भाई साहब लाल किले का कितना लोगे ?"
    जवाब मिला: " बेचना नही है ."


    टैक्सी छोड़ , मैंने बस पकड़ ली ,
    कंडक्टर से पूंछा: "जी , क्या मैं सिगरेट पी सकता हूँ ?"
    वो गुर्र्रा कर बोला : "हरगिज़ नही , यहाँ सिगरेट पीना मन है."
    मैंने कहा: "पर वो जनाब तो पी रहे है!"
    फिर से गुर्र्र्राया : "उसने मुझसे पूंछा नही है."


    लाल किले पंहुचा , होटल गया .
    मेनेजर से कहा: "मुझे रूम चाहिए , सातवी मंजिल पे ."
    मेनेजर ने कहा: "रहने के लिए या कूदने के लिए ?"
    रूम पंहुचा , वेटर से कहा:
    " एक पानी का गिलास मिलेगा ?"
    उसने जवाब दिया: "नही साहब , यहाँ तो सारे कांच के मिलते हैं."


    होटल से निकला , दोस्त के घर जाने के लिए ,
    रास्ते में एक साहब से पूंछा:
    " जनाब , ये सड़क कहाँ को जाती है ?"
    जनाब हंस कर बोले: "पिछले बीस साल से देख रहा हूँ , यही पड़ी है... कहीं नहीं जाती."

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  22. स्टेशन पे एक कुली से बाहर जाने का रास्ता पूंछा .
    कुली ने कहा: " बाहर जाके पूंछो ."


    मैंने ख़ुद ही
    रास्ता ढूंढ़ लिया ,
    बाहर जाके टैक्सी वाले से पूंछा :
    " भाई साहब लाल किले का कितना लोगे ?"
    जवाब मिला: " बेचना नही है ."


    टैक्सी छोड़ , मैंने बस पकड़ ली ,
    कंडक्टर से पूंछा: "जी , क्या मैं सिगरेट पी सकता हूँ ?"
    वो गुर्र्रा कर बोला : "हरगिज़ नही , यहाँ सिगरेट पीना मन है."
    मैंने कहा: "पर वो जनाब तो पी रहे है!"
    फिर से गुर्र्र्राया : "उसने मुझसे पूंछा नही है."


    लाल किले पंहुचा , होटल गया .
    मेनेजर से कहा: "मुझे रूम चाहिए , सातवी मंजिल पे ."
    मेनेजर ने कहा: "रहने के लिए या कूदने के लिए ?"
    रूम पंहुचा , वेटर से कहा:
    " एक पानी का गिलास मिलेगा ?"
    उसने जवाब दिया: "नही साहब , यहाँ तो सारे कांच के मिलते हैं."


    होटल से निकला , दोस्त के घर जाने के लिए ,
    रास्ते में एक साहब से पूंछा:
    " जनाब , ये सड़क कहाँ को जाती है ?"
    जनाब हंस कर बोले: "पिछले बीस साल से देख रहा हूँ , यही पड़ी है... कहीं नहीं जाती."

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  23. हमें तो अपनों ने लूटा,
    गैरों में कहाँ दम था.
    मेरी हड्डी वहाँ टूटी,
    जहाँ हॉस्पिटल बन्द था.

    मुझे जिस एम्बुलेन्स में डाला,
    उसका पेट्रोल ख़त्म था.
    मुझे रिक्शे में इसलिए बैठाया,
    क्योंकि उसका किराया कम था.

    मुझे डॉक्टरों ने उठाया,
    नर्सों में कहाँ दम था.
    मुझे जिस बेड पर लेटाया,
    उसके नीचे बम था.

    मुझे तो बम से उड़ाया,
    गोली में कहाँ दम था.
    और मुझे सड़क में दफनाया,
    क्योंकि कब्रिस्तान में फंक्शन था

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think positive always in life and go to success